I could certainly talk about this amazing leather jacket, or my obvious obsession with neutral pieces but honestly, something has been heavy on my mind lately. Recently, I posted a photo of some amazing boots and naturally I tagged the company (to display how obsessed with them I am, and still am). Soon after the image was reposted, and when I clicked over to see the image they had tagged me in, it wasn’t so much my image at all anymore. What I ended up seeing was a stretched out, photoshopped version of my original photo. My first thought was complete and utter self doubt in myself, “Did they stretch me out because I’m 5’4 and not 5’10?” “Are they embarrassed that my thighs touch?” “Do I not work out enough?” All these ridiculous questions I began to ask myself, which led me back to my original thought.
Sure I am 5’4, I have a curvy shape, and yes, my thighs touch. In most cases, I don’t wear very much makeup, I couldn’t care less about hair and eyelash extensions and I am much to lazy to get a fake tan or fake nails. But guess what… I can dress my ass off and honestly I love dressing for my shape and showing women how to dress for theirs too! Whether you are 5’10, or 5’2, curvy or skinny, we all have different shapes and sizes, and thats what makes us all beautiful individuals.
If you blog, or even just go to blogs for inspiration, KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING. Don’t let the bubble of society of what is “beautiful” or “ideal” shape how you feel about yourself or even how you compare yourself to others. Be inspired by what you love and keep creating. I am always so blown away at what I learn from each and every one of you, even if thats from blog stalking or just reading all the amazing comments I get on Eleventh & Sixteenth.
I know this blog post is completely off the subject, but I just wanted to remind everyone:
You’re amazing.
Muubaa Leather Jacket / Midi Skirt / Crop Top / Valentino Heels / Balenciaga Handbag
Photos: Haley Nord
First, I want to say, this outfit is fantastic! I love the top knot. Also, I want everyone to feel comfortable in their body, for sure, but I’m also an advocate of people being healthy. I must say, you are a total bad ass babe with a truly curvy body that rocks! I saw the post you’re referring to and they definitely did some editing when they reposted. It was completely out of line and unnecessary. But like you said, you are amazing and you rock your clothes like a boss!
This is such an uplifting post! I love the message here, and you look amazing! Keep doing what you’re doing 🙂
xo Kiki
http://colormekiki.com/
Well first, you look absolutely gorgeous here and this is such a killer outfit. Second, I am so glad you decided to share your experience with us!! You’re right that there is a lot of pressure to be/do/wear certain things and I’m really sad that any company would take those liberties with your photo and imply that how you are is not just right as-is. Sooner or later as bloggers we face criticism (whether direct or implied) and a thick skin definitely helps. I love that you just keep doing you and not bending to anyone’s expectations!
Gina | On the Daily Express
I could not agree more with Cheryl. You are stunningly gorgeous. Every time I come to your blog I think that. I love how you dress (today’s post is no exception). You always flatter your shape which is what every woman wants to do. I am so glad to hear you are brushing this off and remaining confident. You have every reason to be!
Amy Ann
Straight A Style
My mouth fell open when I read this. It’s so disheartening that people think that everyone must look like a supermodel to be considered fashionable. Thank you for sharing this, you are beautiful and they should be ashamed for messing with that beauty.
And I love your outfit and topknot!
Xoxo,
Whitney & Blaire
Peaches In A Pod
I can’t imagine why anyone would photoshop a picture of you as you already look amazing! Really you look great! I loved to read your post and it is inspiring! I do love your outfit, your jacket is especially fabulous!
Rebecca
http://www.winnipegstyle.ca/Blog/default.cfm
You’re awesome! This post was such an inspiration and you’re FAB. I love this outfit and I just found a similar moto jacket, I’m in love! Keep doing what you’re doing because you’re great at it!
xoxo,
Melissa
http://www.melissachanel.com
Look at the love! Stay true to yourself as I know you will. I’m bummed this bummed you out but you made it just an inspirational experience. Xo Kp!
I am 5’2″ and curvy, my thighs touch and I do NOT consider myself fat. (Unless I compare myself to models). I have never been able to wear a boot that wasn’t “wide calf” seeing you rock the things you do truly make me feel inspired and totally beautiful. I don’t know what the world would be like without people like you defining what real and normal (and totally hot and sexy) really is. Don’t stop. Please god don’t stop. #gogirl! #girlpower #whodoesthat!???!????
You are gorgeoues. Done. Nuff said. That is all. 🙂
Lovely pictures, love ur jacket and the sandals 🙂
would u like to follow each other on gfc?
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xo, kanchan
I can’t believe someone would do that, you already look stunning! 🙂
Urban Obsessions // Vegan Food, Beauty & Lifestyle
I can’t believe a company would do that. That’s really unprofessional of them, not to mention offensive. You are gorgeous, and if they don’t recognize that, I don’t know what’s wrong with them.
It must have taken a lot of courage to write this post, and I commend you for it. It was amazing to read, and super well written.
You’re stunning, and you should always be proud of that. 🙂
Julia // Little Miss Haute Couture
Those shoes are amazing! You look gorgeous and I love the color of your skirt! So Kim K!
~~Megan~~
http://www.poshprime.com
I love this outfit and I love the message you spread with this blogpost! You are amazing too!
You’re absolutely stunning!!! xo
http://publiclivessecretrecipes.com
And you look amazing too I love a high waist skirt with a crop perfect combo, and can I say love those shoes. hope you’re enjoying the weekend.
http://artadorned.com/
Wow that is absolutely sickening that a company would do that and to even touch your beauty is a complete sin! You are absolutely stunning and rock the hell out of your curves, which I think are so beautiful! So glad to hear you didn’t let it get to you though! Like you said just keep doing what your doing because you are completely fabulous and this outfit is not exception! You look like a rock star!
<3 Shannon
Upbeat Soles
I love the post and I love your message as well 🙂 Brava!!
xo, Jessica || The Petite Diaries
I love how the top and skirt are sexy but the leather jacket adds the edgy element to the look 🙂
xo,
Abby of Life in the Fash Lane
Such a great post and a great message! You are absolutely gorgeous and have every reason to be confident! I just LOVE this outfit too-a good leather jacket is essential!
http://www.rosyoutlookblog.com
I love this edgy look! The half top knot looks great on you!
Christie
The Closet by Christie
I can’t believe that a picture of you was retouched without your permission and how awful that is. You are beautiful and amazing just the way you are – a great message for all of us!
Thank you for being a part of TBT Fashion link up and hope to see you Thursday.
Alice
http://www.happinessatmidlife.com
This outfit is amazing! I love the tan skirt, but the leather jacket sets the whole look off. I really need to invest in a good leather jacket!
xx Leah / http://www.eatpraywearlove.com
I just found your blog, and I have to say your style is amazing! Regardless of what image of perfection others have it’s a breath of fresh air to have people who show you don’t have to be perfect to be amazing. Keep up the positive messages and fab style 🙂
I always look forward to seeing your posts when I’m browsing stylegawker for outfit inspiration. I love that you’re a curvy girl and still fashionable and beautiful. It helps other curvy girls like me feel confident in trying new styles.